How To Make A Woman Chase You
Nov 04, 2016
We have grown up in a world that tells men to chase women. In fact, most people think that it is the job of the man to chase and pursue the woman that he wants. Is this something you have heard before? Well I am going to challenge that flawed advice by showing you what actually works for men... and it isn't what you think.
For those of you that don't know, I have been a 2nd grade teacher for the past 5 years of my life. Long story short... girls in 2nd grade chase the boys in 2nd grade.
It is the boys that are running away not wanting anything to do with the girls (who love to chase the boys around). Take their advice - since kids live free and have not been affected by our societal 'norms' yet.
I am going to be showing you some text messages with a woman that shows that women will chase - when you let them.
Alright this first text starts with her telling me that she will be in town - asking to hangout 'if you are free'. (remember from previous blog posts, women WILL help you find a time to hangout with them when they like you).
She made it very easy for me - BUT I am genuinely busy so I hadn't decided yet if I wanted to hangout with her or get some other things done. So I stalled.
Then she asked me again at the end of her next message - 'So are you free?'.
I didn't respond because again - I had things to do - so she sent a '?' question mark to get an answer from me.
At this point - I stalled further by playfully joking around saying
'it depends if you are going to spill orange juice all over again' (she spilled a drink all over my bed last time we hungout).
Okay so you may be thinking I have screwed up by not taking her invitation to hangout right away... but that is not the case. Remember: A busy man is HIGHLY wanted by women... and if she decided she didn't want to hangout? Haha I am TOTALLY cool with that because I have so many things to do and so many women to see.
Basically this is more of the same ol'... she kept pursuing me while I kept stalling (again - not as a 'game' but because I was in the middle of working on a project and didn't know when I would be finished). So she really tries to get ahold of me with the 4 different texts spelling 'A' 'D' 'A' 'M'.
Now when I finally decided I could get my stuff done and hangout at 9:30 pm, I let her know. This made it so not only could I get my project done, but also she was happy to just come over and watch Netflix... she didn't need some big fancy date, she just wanted to spend time with me. Guys - a lot to learn here.
*side note* when she mentioned she needed to know what time so she knew when to leave Vancouver (which is a 2 hour drive for her to my place... again... women will chase after what they want).
DO NOT set up a date for 'coffee' like I offered her. Always set a date for the evening... the ONLY REASON I mentioned that to her is because I absolutely knew she would want to hangout that night - but giving her that option to meet the next day instead made her feel a lot better about choosing to come over at 9:30 pm at night (when she has choice, she doesn't feel that I am just interested in a booty call).
But that is really advanced stuff, just know that you always want to set dates for the evening or night time so you have a good excuse to go home with her that night after the date.
Homework For YOU:
1) Establish yourself as someone whose time is in demand.
2) Make sure to show you are busy by not responding too soon to her texts.
3) BRAINWASH your own mind by telling yourself you are completely okay with NOT hanging out with a woman tonight. (This the Golden Rule of texting).
As always my fellow men ... KEEP IMPROVING!
Adam Jordan (founder of TextingPrince) helps men understand how to communicate with women to connect in far deeper ways than the average man knows how. He is a professionally certificated instructor with a Master's degree in Curriculum and Instruction (creating simple solutions to complicated problems... like dating). :)